Volume 9, Number 2, July 1998
A
Case Study: Abuse in Care
Randall W. Sargent, MD, CCFP
Medical Director, Bethany Care Society
Calgary, Alberta
Not all residents of long-term care facilities are elderly.
Frequently, the reason for admission of young resident is related
to trauma or to a debilitating disease process. That was the
case for this resident. He was a young male who had once been
an example of fitness and male prowess; lots of girlfriends,
fast crowd, and very proud. Increasingly, he lost even the
capability to care for himself and had to finally concede to
admission to a long-term care facility. This lead to anger
and numerous interactions with staff from which arose complaints
of physical threat and injury. Most workers were afraid of
him, and a plan for tandem care was finally arranged once a
facility was found that was willing to have him as a resident.
Staff found that despite his anger, certain individuals had
an easier time carrying out the patient's activities of daily
living, such as washing, positioning, and feeding. He was by
that date virtually unable to help himself and his language
skills were frustratingly few. One of the staff members who
was able to work with this young man was a female worker who
was between relationships and expressed to her co-workers that
the care of this patient was appealing in more than the usual
way. Her work was, however, temporary and she soon moved on
to other employment. She did, however, return to visit this
young resident and was soon coming often.
One of the things she noted early in the relationship was
the pleasure of touch that this resident enjoyed. This was
in contradiction to most staff members experience since pain
was part of the realm of symptoms this resident was dealing
with and touch was usually painful. Nevertheless, the touch
of this woman was not rejected and in her mind it was encouraged.
The exact nature of conversations was private since staff members
felt somewhat confused as to the role this former staff member
was now assuming. The visits became regular and frequent, often
lasting only for an hour or less at various times during the
day, such as lunch or evening time. Since it did not directly
interfere with the usual staff contact with the patient, a
respectful space was allowed. This created an air of mystery
around the relationship that became a focus of interest on
the unit where the resident lived.
Soon the visits were veiled in secrecy with the curtain drawn
about the bed and interesting sounds emanating from the area,
and although no specific facts were gathered, it was assumed
that the visits had assumed a conjugal nature. From their remote
position, staff members involved in the resident's care constructed
an interpretation of this visitor's activity of physically
stimulating the resident and the pleasure both appeared to
derive. There was no question this resident was likely to enjoy
these activities as evidenced by his past social activities,
the bragging he had done in the past, and the celibate lifestyle
of recent years.
So what happened? Is this abuse? The problems arising for
staff members revolved around the responses of themselves and,
increasingly, the notice of other residents. Eventually, a
more senior staff member from the unit approached this young
woman and the visits stopped almost immediately. The resident
never discussed the relationship with anyone employed in the
facility, but the gossip train was moving and the stories became
legendary.
Case Study Commentary

Al-Noor Nathoo, Southern Alberta Coordinator
Provincial Health Ethics Network
Discussion
At the heart of this case lies the question of potential abuse through
a violation of the healthy boundaries that normally exist between provider
and beneficiary of care.
Professional boundaries have been defined as "separating therapeutic
behaviour... from any behaviour which, well intentioned or not, could
lessen the benefit of care to patients... Boundary violations occur
when there is confusion of the professional's needs with the client's
needs. A boundary violation is typically characterized by a reversal
of roles, secrecy, the creation of a double bind for the client, and
the indulgence of personal privilege by the professional.l" Abuse involving
a boundary violation occurs when there has been a betrayal of the fiduciary
relationship, or agreement of trust, that exists between care providers
and recipients of that care who become vulnerable because of their
need for health care.
While the inappropriateness of sexual relationships between care
providers and their clients over the course of the therapeutic relationship
has been well established, the question of whether it is ever ethically
acceptable for caregivers to enter into intimate relations with former
clients (who are competent) is a more controversial one. The answer
to this question clearly depends on the nature and history of the relationship
itself. At the heart of determining whether a relationship is healthy
or not lies a question of respect; of whether an existing association
between two individuals is grounded in the affirmation of the dignity
of each person, in true consent or choice, and in proper representation
and disclosure of relevant information. Yet the kind of relationship
that existed between the care provider and the resident that likely
lead to intimacies here is difficult to determine at best, from an
outsider's perspective.
Filling in the Details
If 'good' ethics, like law, must be based on accurate 'facts', the
first step in attempting to determine whether this might be a situation
of abuse would be to seek more information. From what sources are the
facts of the case, as presented above, gleaned, and how reliable are
they? What, if any, support was provided to the caregiver by members
of the institution assisting her to identify and work through the issue
herself? How did the resident's perceived aggressive behaviour (which
may, if extreme, have been another form of abuse) towards other caregivers
affect his relationship with this particular care worker?
Furthermore, to what level of closeness or intimacy did the relationship
progress before the care provider left the employ of the care centre?
Who initiated the relationship (keeping in mind that a resident-initiated
rather than care provider-initiated relationship may do nothing to
mitigate the seriousness of the abuse, if it exists)? If the resident,
did there appear to be any element of coercion, manipulation or use
of guilt over time to assuage the care provider to see things in a
way that might result in her making decisions she would later regret?
If the care provider, did the resident feel in any way obliged to respond
positively to the care provider's advances lest his care suffer? A
better understanding of the circumstances surrounding the relationship
is required in order to consider whether several of the defining characteristics
of abuse may or may not be present.
Once this information is available, one can go on to examine whether
the key principles of ethical provider-client relationship have been
respected. Has the caregiver respected the primary duty of all providers
to contribute to the well-being of their clients (beneficence), not
of their own? Perhaps more importantly, what of the oft-cited injunction
that caregivers should, above all, 'do no harm' (non-maleficence)?
How is harm to be understood in this situation? While the potential
negative consequences of such a relationship would have to be considered,
one would also have to take into account any benefits the relationship
may have offered. If the post-therapeutic relationship can be deemed
to be a healthy and freely-chosen one, it may be that attempting, discreetly
or explicitly, to put an end to it might be harmful. Thus, discouraging
a relationship that could potentially contribute a great deal to promoting
feelings of self-worth, autonomy and to the enjoyment of life, might
turn out to be inappropriate or unethical.
Systemic Concerns
The issue of promoting individual autonomy also gives rise to larger
questions about justice and the role of the institution in providing
an environment for healthy relationships to flourish. The confines
of a long-term facility provide well-known obstacles to cultivating
healthy human relations, intimate or otherwise, and pose challenges
to both administrators and residents in seeking forums for privacy,
respect and accommodation of the need for personal space.
If care centres strive to build an atmosphere which its residents
feel reasonably approximates and which they may come to call 'home',
this raises institutional policy concerns regarding what resident activities
could justifiably be curtailed for the sake of the comfort of other
residents, visitors and staff or the effective functioning of the institution.
The particular situation of a (former) caregiver-resident (as opposed
to resident-resident) relationship provides an additional twist to
the issue, but the underlying systemic concern of how continuing care
centres can promote healthy relationships remains central. It is also
a crucial one, in light of accumulating evidence which suggests that
human contact and caring relationships contribute significantly to
better health and survival than has previously been recognized or acknowledged.
Healthcare institutions in the West exist within societies that have
largely adopted a framework of liberalism; individuals are allowed
to engage in whatever activities and subscribe to whatever beliefs
they choose. The only exception to this general principle is where
such activities or expression of beliefs would infringe upon the potential
exercise of those same rights by other individuals living in the same
society. That is, my stamp collecting may be a hobby which gives me
great pleasure, and there is little reason for a nation to outlaw the
sport unless it was somehow dangerous to the health and welfare of
other citizens of that state, or in extreme cases of my own - a scenario
that would be difficult to envision in the case of such a non-violent
hobby. If such are the freedoms we normally allow our citizens, long
term care centres may need to provide justification for not extending
those rights to their own residents.
In other words, we may wish to ask the question - what harms resulting
from the relationship between this care provider and resident, either
to themselves or to others, would be sufficiently compelling to justify
trumping, through some sort of organizational intervention, the presumed
right of residents (citizens) to engage in activities that add to their
enjoyment of life and to their happiness? In the absence of clear indication
that a former caregiver-resident relationship is a potentially harmful
one in more than the usual way (for who hasn't been harmed by unhealthy
relationships?), the institution may in fact be ethically obliged to
promote, rather than discourage, intimacy.
Support for Dealing with Conflict
Aside from addressing larger systemic issues of promoting autonomy
and healthy relations, an additional consideration when examining potential
cases of abuse is the means available to address these concerns as
they arise - before they turn into crises or are forced into the legal
sphere. Issues of potential boundary violations, particularly those
involving romantic or sexual liaisons, can too easily be veiled in
a secrecy that, while respecting the confidentiality and delicacy of
such matters, fails to acknowledge that caregivers too are human beings
whose feelings of attraction or attachment to particular residents
or patients are part of normal human experience.
Such feelings, with the support of colleagues and supervisors, can
be recognized and dealt with in a way that respects the natural inclination
of caregivers to form strong bonds with clients with whom they work
daily and intimately, but that never allows such feelings to translate
into actions that could violate the primacy of caregivers' duties to
their clients to avoid harm and promote well-being. The important distinction
to be made then is in acknowledging that while having such feelings
may be normal, acting on them may be inappropriate.
Conclusions
As is often the situation, it would be premature to begin a proper
discussion and analysis of this case without further information and
without input from the resident and caregiver in question. Only then
would a clearer picture of the nature of the former provider-patient
relationship emerge, and thus of whether that interaction may constitute
abuse.
It is often said that the heart of ethics lies in relationship, not
in rules or principles which theoretically define the boundaries of
right and wrong. That this may indeed be the case is particularly well
demonstrated by the above example, where the principles of autonomy,
justice, beneficence, non-maleficence and others help in highlighting
areas of concern but where a final determination of the true nature
of the relationship, the sincerity and intentions of the key players
and the level of mutuality and freedom of choice is difficult if not
impossible to gauge for anyone confined to doing ethics from a distance.
That care providers who are obligated to report suspected cases of
abuse may be required to practice 'distance ethics' in considering
whether to report such situations is an unfortunate drawback, although
perhaps an unavoidable one, to any such legislation. It demonstrates
well the continual tension between the field of ethics, which encourages
action that is compassionate and just - and the law, which enforces
it.
Reference(s)
- Professional Boundaries for Registered Nurses: Guidelines for the
Nurse-Client Relationship, Alberta Association of Registered Nurses,
April 1998, p.1 and p. 5.
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